Male cupidity can inspire us to try and bag the babe with expensive gifts. It’s true some guys will buy women designer clothes, others jewelry. But what would happen if your man wanted to buy you a designer vagina. Well recently I spoke to a woman whose partner offered to buy her a designer vagina. I am not joking.
This guy offered to buy her an operation that involved having her vagina surgically tightened and brightened for a snug fit around his measurements.
She is now self conscious and believes her vagina is ugly in comparison to those women in girly magazines. As men we can do some pretty dumb things, but wanting to buy a woman a designer vagina goes beyond male stupidity this is insane. He told her that if she loved him she would do it. There is a big difference between being loved and being manipulated. Loving someone does not mean we always have to say ‘yes’.
I told her to listen up, and that there is no vagina on this earth that is ugly and unattractive to a man with a healthy self esteem and unless hers was growing teeth and looked a little like ET her vagina was not the problem – he was.
I know plenty of men, not all that you would introduce to your mother, but I have never, ever heard one of them say, “I really like this girl, but man she has an ugly vagina!”
But as I told her, “The way a man responds to her is an alarm bell for how he thinks and feels about himself.” And to me it was pretty damn obvious that he doesn’t think to highly about himself and that her alarm bells should be going off big time!
I’m not sure what was going on with her partner, but there was obviously something not right or he’d never go there. I told her that if he mentions a designer vagina again, for her to put her looney love hormones on hold and become a ‘vaginal vigilante’.
She had to use two feet and stand up and protect her ‘mini me’. If her man is after something plastic she should feel free to tell him to go and get a blow up doll, or better still, if he wants a tighter fit, he should go and get a penis enlargement!
I told her, "Never ever make your body parts wrong to make an unhealthy male situation right. And no matter how much you love this cupid…don’t buy stupid!"
Healthy love celebrates womanliness, it never threatens or makes it wrong.
Learning to say ‘no’ to situations that threaten our well being can be the greatest act of self love. It allows us to be true to ourselves and live our lives the way we want without worrying about what others might think.
BE BEAUTIFUL BE FREE
Gregory Landsman
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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…
B alance in life unfolds from the inside out
E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life
A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others
U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom
T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want
Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve
‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’
