Thursday, July 30, 2009

DOING SOMETHING DIFFERENTLY

CHANGING THE FACE OF BEAUTY

When we are hurting physically or emotionally it is our body's alarm that screams stop, listen and do something different. If we ignore the pain and just keep doing what we have been doing we keep hurting ourselves. We find ourselves smiling when we feel like crying, we swallow our words when we feel like screaming, we pretend we are not hurt when we feel emotionally crushed. We have all had these experiences.

Some of us can choose to keep hurting ourselves for years or even a lifteime because we have refused to acknowledge we are in pain; because acknowledging our pain often means we have to do something differently, which more than likely means making a different choice that says we are worthy of peace and joy not pain. Make a decision to stop the hurt and then do whatever you need to do to follow it through.

Decisions are what make our lives move forward and as we honor our decisions, we honor ourselves and the way we live and love.

Experiencing beauty and love in our life is not painful. It is the places that we search for these qualities that more often than not cause us pain.

Be Beautiful Be Free

Gregory Landsman


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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

THE BEAUTY IN FORGIVENESS

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We have all made choices and done and experienced things in life that have left us feeling shameful , angry, guilty and remorseful. We all believe we have done things that are unforgivable, but nothing we have done is beyond the power of forgiveness.


Forgiveness does not mean it is OK when a person has mistreated you. It is, however, being willing not to carry the hurt and anger around with you. It is 'for-giving' us a chance to live peacefully with ourselves.

It all starts with a choice - to make a heart felt decision to live in the present and say goodbye to the past.

Be Beautiful Be Free

Gregory Landsman


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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

LIVING & LOVING IN A POWERFUL WAY

CHANGING THE FACE OF BEAUTY

Our beauty begins to work in our lives when we recognise that all our decisions have the potential to transform us.

Each day presents us with an opportunity to be born again and to make different choices and decisions that support us to feel beautiful.
Recognise that you have the ability to change the way you feel in your life, and live and love in a more powerful way.

Be Beautiful Be Free

Gregory Landsman



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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Monday, July 27, 2009

CHANGING THE FACE OF BEAUTY

Knowing our value gives us strength when we feel weak, understanding when we are confused, trust when we are doubtful, enthusiasm when we feel bored, acceptance when we are judgmental and balance when we feel out of control.

'The world is only complete and beautiful when we recognise our own and know we have a place in it.'
Be Beautiful Be Free

GREGORY LANDSMAN

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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Sunday, July 26, 2009

ENTHUSIASM FEEDS OUR BEAUTY!

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Enthusiasm is the happy juice that lives in our heart.

Awakening the enthusiastic response within ourselves is not about excitement, but a deep conviction that what we are and represent is a true reflection of us.

The more enthusiasm we feel for ourselves, the more energy we have to participate in life and the more we can express ourselves fully.


Creating enthusiasm is about staying true to ourselves in thought, word and deed.

Be Beautiful Be Free

Gregory Landsman




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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Thursday, July 23, 2009

THE BEAUTY IN KNOWING YOUR VALUE

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To know our value is a gift we can give to ourselves.

Unwrapping this gift often takes courage as it asks us to leave behind beliefs that do not support us to live and love fully.


For some it will ask you to follow your dreams when no one else will follow them with you. And for others it is a reminder that we all have a voice and a right to be heard, when others want us to be quiet.

But beyond that it asks all of us to worry less about what others think of us and to focus on thinking positively about ourselves.


Think beautiful, feel beautiful!

GREGORY LANDSMAN



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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

THE BEAUTY IN GRATITUDE

CHANGING THE FACE OF BEAUTY

Gratitude is an attitude that ensures we recognise how abundant we are. And because we focus on the good we attract more good things, feelings, situations and people into our lives.

As people it is so easy to focus on what we don't have and in the process forget what we do.

Walk, talk and think gratitude - it strengthens great feelings about ourselves and enhances the quality of our lives. For when we see the beauty in life we begin to see the beauty in ourselves.

Be Beautiful Be Free

Gregory Landsman



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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS PERFECT BEAUTY ONLY HUMAN BEAUTY

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There is a school of thought that believes you can tell a person's level of self esteem by the way they accept a compliment. Notice that very often it is difficult to accept a compliment, because most of the time we do not feel deserving.

Yet a compliment is a gift that we offer to someone. So when one is given to you, don't throw it back as though it means nothing, accept it graciously, as you would any other gift.

So the next time you get a compliment that says you look great, resist responding with negative mutterings about being overweight, tired or having a bad hair day and just smile and say 'thank you'.


Acknowledge your gifts and qualities and know that you are worthy of receiving a compliment everyday.

The truth is we don't have to be perfect to accept one.


'There is no such thing as perfect beauty, only human beauty.'

Be Beautiful Be Free

GREGORY LANDSMAN



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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Sunday, July 19, 2009

THE BEAUTY IN BREATH


CHANGING THE FACE OF BEAUTY


Breathing properly is a skill. Deep breathing has been found to effectively reduce general anxiety disorders, depression, head aches, poor concentration, fatigue and irritability. It also allows blood pressure to return to normal and releases natural mood enhancers. The best part of this is that we can do it anywhere, anytime.

On average we breath 23,000 times a day. Every breath we take is so simple, it is miraculous. So fine, it is invisible, so intricate it is difficult to comprehend. Yet the simple act of breathing brings the power of life.


Use your breath as a wonderful reminder to awaken to the life force that flows through your body and the beauty you possess as a human being.
Breath deeply and powerfully. It feels good to be alive.

Be Beautiful Be Free

GREGORY LANDSMAN


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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Thursday, July 16, 2009

LOVE IS A MAGICAL THING!

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Love is a magical thing. Besides making your skin glow, it generates energy, boosts your immune system, acts as a barrier to depression and reduces anxiety.
"It makes no difference what or who we love, the most important thing is that we feel it and share it with others."

Be Beautiful Be Free

Gregory Landsman



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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

ALWAYS HAVE A DREAM

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You owe it to yourself to have a dream. Dreams are powerful motivators that encourage you to believe in yourself and take the action steps to make them a reality.

Your dream doesn't have to be one that saves the world, but it must be one that belongs to you and pulls at your heart.

Fulfilling your dreams is not always easy, but with self belief it is possible.


"Be adventurous, live fully, follow your heart and never give up on your dream or yourself!"

Be beautiful be free…



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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

THE POWER OF WORDS


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There is a huge responsibility that comes with using words. It takes a split second for words to leave our mouths, but they can live in a heart forever.

The casual put down, the degrading joke made at the expense of another person or that little criticism can all slowly destroy love and the way a person thinks and feels. Criticism is destructive and demeaning, and I am not just referring to the way we communicate with another person, but also the way we communicate with ourselves.

Words that express love are uplifting, not deflating, instructive not destructive. So why do we chose words that wound and hurt, as opposed to those that strengthen love and self acceptance?

So while love offers all of us an opportunity to grow, self love (and talk) allows us to feel more, heal more and love more.

Be Beautiful Be Free...



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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Monday, July 13, 2009

BE A BEAUTY INNOVATOR

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Everyday we make the choice to be a beauty innovator or a beauty impersonator!

Beauty innovators keep their authenticity, dance to their own tune, sing their own words and listen to their own stories; knowing that how their story ends is determined by the choices and decisions they make today...and every other day.

Be beautiful be free…

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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Sunday, July 12, 2009

THE VOICE OF BEAUTY

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We listen to many different voices during the day, but everyone knows that little voice that shouts obscenities and criticism you when you look in the mirror. The one that makes you believe you have fallen short of the ideal and loves to make comparisons with airbrushed pictures in our favourite magazines. Beauty and the inner bitch!
Women are too harsh on themselves. Ask women when will they be pretty enough or young enough, and according to them, probably never!
Well it’s time to silence that voice. And the only way to do that is too celebrate who you are from the inside out.


‘You are whole & beautiful for no other reason than you are a woman.’
BE BEAUTIFUL, BE FREE

Gregory Landsman

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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Thursday, July 9, 2009

THE LATEST BEAUTY INJECTON...THE G-SHOT!

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Sitting at a dinner party last time I was in LA, I heard about something that made me splutter as I was mid-sip on a glass of wine!

Forget about lip implants and botox injections; the hippest ‘unnatural’ procedure for enhancing, plumping and primping those on the red carpet is no longer visible to the eyes. Apparently the hottest place for stars to get a big shot of collagen is not on their face, but on their G-spot...ouch! This pleasure point is rich in nerve endings and for $1800 dollars many believe it is a small price to pay for ecstasy.

The G-shot is exactly that - a shot of collagen to the G-spot that temporarily enlarges the area making it easier to locate. After an initial consultation and examination the woman is left alone in the exam room to find her G-spot. The doctor then comes in to confirm the location and injects her with local anesthetic before administering the collagen. This all takes less than half an hour!

As men I know that sometimes we might not have a lot of energy for foreplay, but this procedure gives every man a very tangible excuse to give it a miss. ‘Ohh I am sorry I thought you had a G-shot!’

My thought on this one…there is often little difference between what appears to be self improvement and what is in reality self destruction - this one is way over the line!


Be beautiful be free…



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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

DOES MAKEUP MAKE YOU BEAUTIFUL?

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I hear so many women saying that they can’t leave home without their make up or they wouldn’t be seen dead without foundation. The truth is make up doesn’t have the power to give anyone beauty. But make up in itself is not a problem, it only becomes an issue when we think it’s an absolute necessity that delivers beauty in a compact.

When it comes to your beauty recognise that your face is only one aspect and that the way you think and feel can out weigh the most perfect makeup and out do the highest cheek bones.

What radiates from within is powerful. Inner beauty is difficult to describe, but we all know it when we come across it.


I have met women like this, none of whom were models, but their faces revealed an openness and acceptance that showed they felt harmonious within themselves; and as a result they looked beautiful. Their inner beauty reflected outer beauty far more strongly than any airbrushed magazine cover.

Our faces communicate our feelings about our beauty and no amount of make up can hide them.


'Where there is joy there is always beauty'

BE BEAUTIFUL, BE FREE


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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

THE VALUE OF A WOMAN

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A woman has made headlines by giving her husband a very unique 17th wedding anniversary present. She gave him something both personal and painful…her virginity!

It cost her $5000 to stitch her hymen back together so she could lose her ‘manufactured’ virginity for the second time. Now her sister is thinking of becoming a virgin again for her 45th birthday to surprise her husband.

Sounds to me like this family has some serious virginity issues! Neither of these women need new hymens - they each need a new brain! We aren't living in the dark ages; women are entitled to have sexual experiences. So placing emphasis on a small piece of skin is simply insane: a hymen certainly doesn’t make a woman a more loving human being, nor should it make her more valued.

I think any woman who wastes $5000 for three seconds of pain should have spent that money on therapy; it might have been more productive. And if her husband didn’t know she wasn’t a virgin after seventeen years, they both need therapy!


'Our beauty (and our value) is never defined by our past, but who we are and what we believe about ourselves today, right here, right now!'

Be beautiful be free…



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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Monday, July 6, 2009

LEAVE THE ANIMALS ALONE

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As we live in a time when it seems that there is no part of the human body that cannot be nipped, tucked, sucked and plucked in attempt to be body perfect, it seems that the knives have turned to animals. (Not referring to people who behave like animals, but our pooches.)

In Europe, Brazil and the United States cosmetic surgery for our four legged friends is the latest fad.

In Los Angeles pet pooches are having eye tucks, wart removals and…hold your breath…even face lifts. As one LA veterinary nurse said, “A woman who has gone under extensive surgery to look good, certainly doesn’t want people to think her dog is ugly!”

In Brazil, Edgado Brito is advancing the practice of pet surgery. He can make protruding ears droop and straighten bent ears using metacril and botox. He even tightens the mammillae of female dogs after they have had pups. Brito believes that animal heath is his top concern, but that beauty also is important to the animals well being; as if the owner thinks the dog is attractive, the relationship is better!

If I was this guy I would be less concerned about the relationship owners have with their dogs and focus on fixing the disturbed relationship that he has with himself!

It’s bad enough that people are going under the knife to fix what they believe is wrong, but for goodness sake, leave the animals alone.


BE BEAUTIFUL, BE FREE



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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Sunday, July 5, 2009

REAL BEAUTY CAN'T BE ANALYSED!

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Have you ever thought that if you had different facial characteristics or so called ‘perfect skin’ that you might be happier.


Add this feeling to an opportune moment when someone in a department store offers to tell you EVERYTHING you need to know about your skin with a fabulous machine.

Thinking this is a good thing, you sit down and before you know it the little machine has a probe on your face that is counting your wrinkles, measuring how deeply they are etched into your skin, how large your pores are, how dry your skin is, and in short, exactly how rapidly you are aging.

By the time you leave you feel that there is no hope for you, and your confidence and enthusiasm levels about how you look have plummeted. Scared your skin is crumbling in front of your eyes, you find yourself buying as many products as it take to fix the problem that they have just given you!


Maintaining a level of enthusiasm for yourself and your skin requires you to use those little words ‘no thank you’.


NEVER EVER allow a state of the art skin machine near your face! It will never tell you anything positive, only imprison you in negativity and judgments. After all that is what they are designed to do!


But it is positive self beliefs that nourish, liberate and set your spirit free.
They are what allow you to step into your beauty.

BE BEAUTIFUL, BE FREE



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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Thursday, July 2, 2009

UNFLATTERING SEXUAL POSITIONS - I DONT THINK SO!

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While most media articles about sex are aimed at making people feel more confident, the article I read recently would leave most women feeling more ‘hum’ than ‘ho’. It advised of something every woman needs to know - how to avoid the most ‘unflattering’ sexual positions. Yep, I had a bit of a laugh because some of it’s shared wisdom included avoiding sitting on top, so the man can’t see up your nose…cos we all know nasal hair isn’t sexy!

Sadly, this was just another example of the ridiculous taboos that impede upon the joy of sex. There can be no denying that living in an age of associating physical perfection with achieving sexual conquests brings a certain amount of anxiety and self consciousness - especially when you feel more comfortable washing your sheets rather than lying ‘butt naked’ on them.

But let’s step back for a minute and put everything back into perspective. If you find yourself in some contorted position called ‘Passionate Pretzel’, but in reality you are not feeling very ‘passionate’ at all because you are worrying that your partner thinks you look more like your favourite donut from his angle, then your fears are totally unfounded!

As long as it feels good, REAL men – those with a healthy approach to women and life - are extremely happy. We certainly don’t think about all the things that you are self conscious about; so relax about the bits that move. If something is shaking and flopping, it is a sure sign that you are into it and that is all that we are really concerned about. Sex was never supposed to be static and still - providing you aren’t a necrophiliac! I always say that if it ain’t moving and making funny sounds, it ain’t good sex.

I can’t speak for most men, but I am sure they will agree that we value enthusiasm and an open mind, more than we do a set of toned thighs attached to a cellulite free bum…great sex certainly doesn’t equate to a flawless body.

So if you are up for unleashing your inner sex kitten in any position, don’t turn the lights down so that we can’t even see you; turn your attitude up and let your inner vixen out. After all the sex organ that really counts is the brain! Yep, great sex starts with positive thoughts.


Be beautiful be free…


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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

20 WAYS TO KNOW YOU ARE KEEPING IT REAL!

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REAL IS THE NEW BEAUTY. It is the foundation on which we can build our lives.

Instead of the fantasy of beauty having power over women and men, they are being empowered by what is real, what is good, what has meaning and what can add value to their life.

20 ways to know you are KEEPING IT REAL…

1. Real beauty urges all of us to celebrate our humanity.

2. Real demands truth and respect.

3. Real beauty is life changing when we accept that the most beautiful aspects of who we are cannot always be seen with the eyes.

4. Real means we choose what we want to buy instead of being manipulated to buy it.

5. Real means we are educating our children to celebrate who they are and their differences.

6. Real means addressing real issues without avoiding them.

7. Real beauty demands that what we pay for gives us results.

8. Real means accepting that what is in a magazine does not have the power to make us feel bad.

9. Real means knowing that as human beings we already have beauty.

10. Real knows that what looks good, does not necessarily mean it is good for us.

11. Real knows that we all deserve to be loved for who we are, not what we think others want us to be.

12. Real gives us the strength and courage to understand our feelings and insecurities and listen to the promise of a new day.

13. Real knows that we are only as ugly the judgments we make.

14. Real beauty is outstanding, outdoing, outlasting the fantasy every time.

15. Real knows that there is not a person on this earth that is not touched by beauty.

16. Real knows we are only as real the choices we make, day to day hour to hour minute to minute.

17. Real is only beautiful when the person looks in a mirror and really knows that beauty is not tied up with their bone structure but the structure of their thoughts.

18. Real only has power in life when an individual knows that the beauty they search for outside of themselves is a small aspect of what lies within.

19. Real is changing the face of beauty as we know it with positive beliefs that nourish, liberate us and set our spirits free.

20. Real knows that as an individual you can make a change and together we can make a difference.

I believe REAL B.E.A.U.T.Y. has the power to rapidly change our inner world and the world we share with others.

DON’T WAIT, KEEP IT REAL.

BE BEAUTIFUL, BE FREE



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My Definition of REAL BEAUTY is…

B alance in life unfolds from the inside out

E nthusiasm lies within the way you think and feel about yourself and life

A cceptance is the path to making peace with yourself and others

U nderstanding who we are gives us clarity and wisdom

T rust attunes your heart and mind to know what you want

Y ou possess BEAUTY and all that it takes to create the life and love you deserve

‘Beauty is about feeling more, healing more, living more and loving more’